Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Life Lessons From Tuesdays With Morrie,

Life Lessons From Tuesdays With Morrie,

1. “Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do.
2. “Accept the past as past, without denying it or discarding it.
3. “Learn to forgive yourself and to forgive others.
4. “Don’t assume that it is too late to get involved.
5. Find someone to share your heart, give to your community, be at peace with yourself, try to be as human as you can be.
6. Love always wins.
7. “The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn’t work, don’t buy it.”
8. “So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.”
9. “ .if you really want it, then you’ll make your dream happen.”
10. “The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.”
11. “Love is the only rational act.”
12. “I don’t allow myself any more self-pity than that. A little each morning, a few tears, and that’s all . . . . It’s horrible to watch my body slowly wilt away to nothing. But it’s also wonderful because of all the time I get to say goodbye.”
13. “Sometimes you can’t believe what you see; you have to believe what you feel.”
14. “What if today were mylast day on earth?”
15. “Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.”
16. If you accept you are going to die at any time, then you might not be as ambitious as you are.
17. There is no foundation, no secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn’t the family.
18. “Don’t cling to things, because everything is impermanent.”
19. “ . . . If you’ve found meaning in your life you don’t want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more. You can’t wait until sixty-five.”
20. “Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness.” 21. “. love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone.” (p. 133)
22. “Love each other or perish.”
23. “ . . . the big things—how we think, what we value—those you must choose yourself. You can’t let anyone--or any society—determine those for you.”
24. “Don’t let go too soon, but don’t hang on too long.”
25. “Be compassionate. And take responsibility for each other. If we only learned those lessons, this world would be so much better a place.”
26. “Forgive yourself before you die. Then forgive others.”
27. “As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on—in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.”
28. “Death ends a life, not a relationship.”
29. The important questions have to do with love, responsibility, spirituality, awareness.
30. “You’re not a wave, you are part of the ocean.”
31. “there is no such thing as ‘too late’ in life.”

Monday, November 9, 2009


My first love? Hhhhhhhh, that always brings tears in my eyes.

I always wonder where he is,
whether or not he's doing okay for himself in the world.

Do I remember my first love? You bet I do, like it was yesterday -- and it's been 8 years.
It just a sweet memory which hurt in your heart when you think about him.
first loves are precious parts of our lives.


After so many years, just thinking about first loves isn’t seem childish, whoever it was, the one we first loved seems to be a permanent part of our consciousness. We can't forget him ---- and who would want to?

He was the best person in this world. I never met him. last time I saw him in our English board exam. It was around 8 years back. At that time he was cute chubby boy, me and my friends always giggle, I use to talk about him they always ask me what the special thing why you like him so much he was such a normal looking guy nothing was special in him. At that time I have no answer I just say I don’t know. We left the school.

Time -------------------------------Goes------------------Goes----------------Goes Goes and goes

After that we never met. I adore him. Now today I have my solitaire with me we are going to engage next year. but I must say he was the best memory in my life.
It is not necessary to give the name to every Relationship I adore him I like him thats it for me.

-----------Everything Beyond Forever-----------


Saturday, October 31, 2009

""""I love my self """"


I love my self

“I love myself . I love the things that i am doing for other people,
I realise that i am not a bad girl , i am a good friend, a good daughter, and a good lover
i love myself as i am fun to be around with friends , i have many adventures and i am rather witty and intelligent.

i love my self. i love it all,

In the world, i don't need anyone or love of any body , i am good enough for myself. And what I am

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”
Lucille Ball quotes (American radio and motion-picture actress and comedy star, 1911-1989)

Make Positive statements Everyday!!!!

Every morning when you go front of mirror just look at the mirror and say “ I AM THE BEST ” I must say it will definitely work, and you will get a self appraisal and self boost amd iam sure your day will fill of energies and self confidence.
“””I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.
Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.
However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me.”””
Denis2005 Virginia Satir quotes (American Phychologist and Educator, 1916-1988)

The happy memories we carry

The happy memories we carry


Enormously I am missing my childhood .how ever the memories of child hood always give comfort to every one. When did we grow up and how do we make a full stop in our childhood its sounds odd. The loss of childhood is an issue we all have unfortunately experienced.
The happy memories of our childhood will carry with us always be there to ease us in times of sadness. When we look back at our flowering process we see a joyful era. The enjoyable times of our love ones and our friends, the lessons learned the poems we read the scold of teachers, the memories of childhood and the lasting friendly relationship we made will exist with us forever.

Childhood is full of First-My first day in school, my first cycle, first best friend, first report card ,first crush, and even the first rejection. Each new events teaches us a life long lesson. Diwali was good because papa brings us lots of cracker, winters was good because in day of December and January we fill our pockets with peanuts,
Fun filled days of summer holidays , playing whole day in scotching heat .That was a time of only a decade ago, every day was an adventure memories of the fun we had playing the games that now looking silly.
They were the days of hide and seek, hiding in the every corner of colony and when adult saw u hiding you just say don’t tell tem I am here.
What when we enjoys the Doordarshan serials and discuss in class about those serials. Spending our Sunday in watching those methodology serials which now seems a big bore ,Isn’t strange how we enjoy those at that time.

Today we have every comfort of life. But we still miss those play grounds, those roads where we spend our whole eve in cycling, those gardens,street dog and ofcource our first crush. Memories only needs spark to fire up high spirits. I earn ease knowing that the memories of our adolescence and our friends will forever exist in our hearts and in our smiles. Happy recollections of childhood memories won’t cost you any bug.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Where were those day gone !!!!


Where were those day gone !!!!

We were children we ran towards ever candy we saw , we like aampapad,we like churan and crazy for those imli. We hated to going school, we like last school bell, we screamed for our first bicycle. we kicked the ball to every corner of our neighbourhood. we like to ghar gahr like to play with dolls . fear of teachers fear of report card. Night mare of those unit test and those papa’s shout. lots of friends no cartoon no computer, we love those Sundays when we laughed by heart out watching those jungle book.

Sitting broken having lost on those memories. I wish I still were a child.


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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Solitare Diamond Ring A Knot of love


Solitare Diamond Ring A Knot of love

Solitaire Diamond ring shows the eternal bond of love between the couple. The sparkling diamond is always considered to be women’s best friend. Every girl has a dream to have a solitaire Diamond Ring on her figure at the time of her engagement. There are number of engagement and wedding rings available in the market but one of the most famous and popular ring is Solitaire Diamond ring. Its classic designs, gorgeous appeal, and uniqueness increase its popularity as well as its demand.

Solitaire diamond rings as unbreakable bond of marriage.

People say Marriages are made in heaven, and we all want to make that day a special one in our lives. You can present your loved one with a stunning solitaire engagement ring to make her feel special and lovable. It is unique and natural on your part to gift her something that is priceless as your love to her. Your idea of presenting her with a solitaire Diamond Ring on her engagement is the best decision because Love is as priceless and unique as a diamond born millions of years ago. .From olden days to 21st century the engagement ring has continued its unity and ever last love between a man and woman, but now solitaire Diamond rings have replaced gold rings, because solitaire diamond ring is a ring having one studded diamond and nothing else to distract the attention of the people. Diamonds are popular as the preferred gem in a form of engagement or wedding rings, which are often worn every day.

Best Guidelines to buy a Solitaire Diamond Ring

There are many things to be kept in mind while buying a perfect engagement ring for your loved one. , You should first decide the size of the diamond.., round cut diamond size is probably the most popular and diamond available but there are others to choose from too, the shape with which you want to go is purely a matter of personal taste .but the size of the ring has to be decided as per the size of the finger, and the bigger the finger the bigger diamond, the smaller the finger the smaller the diamond otherwise the ring may look unfit to her beautiful finger.

Certified Diamonds

While purchasing the engagement ring , every one should look for satisfaction ,A certification diamond is a diamond that has been graded , tested and examined by a team of fully trained gemologist .This certificate is also known as grading report or diamond dossier.

This certificate document contains exact measurement, weight, as well as the details of its cut and quality. A certified diamond provides consumer with confidence, security and increase comfort level as well as confidence level.

Summary:

Love is eternal. Getting engaged is a once in a life time occasion and you want everything to be perfect. So buy perfect solitaire diamond ring for your loved one and make your moment the most memorable moment of your life